Today’s blog entry is about the “s-word.”  By that I mean it’s about sex, or more accurately about sexual well-being.  I thought it may be prudent to discuss some sex issues as well as discuss some of the consumer top rated products for a healthy sex life.

Communication
It’s important to discuss your needs and desires in terms of your sexual well-being with your partner. Be open about what you need because women and men are truly the proverbial “Venus and Mars” in terms of their sexuality. Men are more results-oriented in terms of their sexuality while women tend to be more complex. If you are like many women you need to communicate to your partner what will get you there…because we seem to be wired so differently and are most often motivated by intimacy and closeness, as opposed to straight up physical attraction and gratification.

Lubricants
In order for comfortable and pleasurable sex women need to be well-lubricated and there are many of us who need assistance in that department. For instance, menopausal women tend to have issues with vaginal dryness as do many pre-menopausal women. Lubrication will not only make sex more satisfying for you but men love when their women are well-lubricated as it is more satisfying for them as well. Don’t be afraid to mention or bring out the lubricants…because from what I’ve read…men have no problem with that at all. It’s kind of similar to us worrying that we may look fat naked…and all he’s thinking is he’s happy to be having sex and never even notices our flaws at all. So by all means don’t worry he’s turned off by our using a lubricant in front of him. Liquid Silk Sensual Lubricant is a creamy, but lightweight lubricant which provides for smooth and friction free gliding, and will wash right off once you wish to become lube free. Another favorite lube and one of the most popular choices is Astroglide Personal Lubricant. Astroglide is water-soluble, water based and doctor recommended. Another great choice for keeping well-hydrated and moisturized is by a company called Very Private. Very Private Intimate Moisture is ideal for those of us who want to deal with this issue on a daily basis and be ready at any time. It’s a great choice if you’d prefer to lubricate in privacy as opposed to in front of him. Just a drop or two a day and the delicate tissues are well lubricated. Additionally it has no taste, scent and feels most like your own body produced the moisture.

Here’s to a healthier, happier sex life!